{"id":71453,"date":"2026-02-19T09:58:49","date_gmt":"2026-02-19T05:58:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/azerbaycan.media\/?p=71453"},"modified":"2026-02-19T09:58:49","modified_gmt":"2026-02-19T05:58:49","slug":"vaxtsiz-kocun-kolgesinde-boyuyen-usaqlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/azerbaycan.media\/?p=71453","title":{"rendered":"VAXTSIZ K\u00d6\u00c7\u00dcN K\u00d6LG\u018fS\u0130ND\u018f B\u00d6Y\u00dcY\u018fN U\u015eAQLAR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Vaxts\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7 bir evin divarlar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131dan s\u0259ssiz z\u0259lz\u0259l\u0259dir. O, qap\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259d\u0259n gir\u0259r, ocaq ba\u015f\u0131nda yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qalan s\u00f6zl\u0259ri, s\u00fcfr\u0259d\u0259 soyuyan \u00e7ay\u0131, yast\u0131qda qalan n\u0259f\u0259s izini \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 aparar. Lakin \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fck\u00fc divarlar yox, u\u015faqlar da\u015f\u0131yar. \u00c7\u00fcnki u\u015faq q\u0259lbi h\u0259l\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n s\u0259rtliyin\u0259 b\u0259rkim\u0259mi\u015f bir torpaqd\u0131r; ora d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n h\u0259r iz d\u0259rin v\u0259 silinm\u0259z olar. Valideyn itkisi il\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faq bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur qalar. Oyuncaqlar\u0131n dili susar, na\u011f\u0131llar\u0131n sonu d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259r, gec\u0259l\u0259r daha uzun, s\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259r daha yor\u011fun a\u00e7\u0131lar.<br \/>\nBel\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 bir sakitlik olar. Onlar \u00e7ox vaxt az dan\u0131\u015far, amma d\u0259rin baxarlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259rl\u0259r ki, h\u0259yat h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259dal\u0259tli deyil. H\u0259r g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn arxas\u0131nda bir nisgil, h\u0259r sevincin i\u00e7ind\u0259 bir qorxu gizl\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. M\u0259kt\u0259b yollar\u0131 dig\u0259r u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sad\u0259 bir g\u00fcnd\u0259lik mar\u015frut oldu\u011fu halda, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259m d\u0259 xatir\u0259l\u0259rin ke\u00e7id yeridir. Ata \u0259li tutmayan, ana s\u0259si e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259n s\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259r onlar\u0131n ruhunda bo\u015fluq yaradar. Bu bo\u015fluq is\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 fiziki yoxluq deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259n hissinin z\u0259d\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259sidir.<br \/>\nVaxts\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcn k\u00f6lg\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar tez-tez suallar ver\u0259r: Niy\u0259 m\u0259n. Niy\u0259 bizim ev. Niy\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r tez. Bu suallar\u0131n b\u0259zisinin cavab\u0131 yoxdur. Cavabs\u0131zl\u0131q is\u0259 u\u015faq ruhunda s\u0259ssiz bir a\u011fr\u0131 kimi qal\u0131r. Onlar ya i\u00e7l\u0259rin\u0259 qapanar, ya da h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli olarlar. Ki\u00e7ik \u00e7iyinl\u0259rind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck y\u00fck da\u015f\u0131yar, analar\u0131na dayaq, bac\u0131-qarda\u015flar\u0131na sip\u0259r olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015farlar. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 \u00f6z u\u015faql\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 itir\u0259r\u0259k erk\u0259n yetkinliy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m qoyarlar.<br \/>\nBel\u0259 u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259tin rolu b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. \u018fg\u0259r bir \u0259l onlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131\u011fallayarsa, bir s\u00f6z \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00fcmid \u0259k\u0259rs\u0259, o zaman k\u00f6lg\u0259 bir az \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259r. M\u00fc\u0259llimin anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, qohumun qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131, qon\u015funun diqq\u0259ti bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n taleyini d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki sevgi v\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t insan\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259ki qaranl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131ran \u0259n g\u00fccl\u00fc q\u00fcvv\u0259dir. U\u015faq bilm\u0259lidir ki, itki onun g\u00fcnah\u0131 deyil, h\u0259yat\u0131n s\u0259rt s\u0131na\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Bilm\u0259lidir ki, yoxluq sevginin bitm\u0259si dem\u0259k deyil. \u018fksin\u0259, b\u0259z\u0259n sevgi fiziki varl\u0131qdan daha b\u00f6y\u00fck v\u0259 daha davaml\u0131 olur.<br \/>\nVaxts\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7 h\u0259m d\u0259 bir irs buraxar. O irs xatir\u0259dir. \u018fg\u0259r o xatir\u0259 qorxu il\u0259 deyil, sevgi il\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131larsa, u\u015faq k\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131 bacarar. O zaman itki onu s\u0131nd\u0131rmaz, m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndir\u0259r. A\u011fr\u0131dan m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t, k\u0259d\u0259rd\u0259n hikm\u0259t do\u011fular. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 daha tez anlayar, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdin\u0259 daha h\u0259ssas yana\u015far. Onlar\u0131n q\u0259lbind\u0259 yaranan bo\u015fluq b\u0259z\u0259n insanl\u0131\u011fa a\u00e7\u0131lan bir p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259r.<br \/>\nLakin unutmaq olmaz ki, h\u0259r u\u015faq eyni g\u00fcc\u0259 malik deyil. B\u0259zil\u0259ri bu k\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox d\u0259st\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac duyar. Psixoloji dayaq, sevgi dolu m\u00fchit v\u0259 sabitlik onlar\u0131n ruhunda yaranan \u00e7atlar\u0131 sa\u011falda bil\u0259r. \u018fks halda, i\u00e7ind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n k\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131na t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 vaxts\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcn ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayan u\u015faqlara yaln\u0131z m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tl\u0259 baxmaq kifay\u0259t deyil, onlara davaml\u0131 diqq\u0259t v\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<br \/>\nN\u0259tic\u0259 olaraq, vaxts\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcn k\u00f6lg\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar h\u0259yat\u0131n \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r d\u0259rsini erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259rdir. Onlar\u0131n taleyi bizim m\u00fcnasib\u0259timizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq ya qaranl\u0131q bir xatir\u0259y\u0259, ya da g\u00fccl\u00fc bir xarakter\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259 bil\u0259r. H\u0259r birimiz bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda bir i\u015f\u0131q ola bil\u0259rik. \u00c7\u00fcnki bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 yand\u0131r\u0131lan \u00fcmid \u00e7\u0131ra\u011f\u0131, bir ail\u0259nin s\u00f6n\u0259n oca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yerini tam doldurmasa da, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin yolunu i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131ra bil\u0259r. H\u0259yat b\u0259z\u0259n yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qoyar, amma sevgi v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 o yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131 tamamlayan \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck q\u00fcvv\u0259dir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>\u270d Sevil Azadq\u0131z\u0131<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Az\u0259rbaycan dili v\u0259 \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llimi. Filoloq. \u018fd\u0259bi t\u0259hlil-t\u0259nqid\u00e7i. Yazar-publisist.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>M\u0259nb\u0259: Az\u0259rbaycan.media\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Vaxts\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7 bir evin divarlar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131dan s\u0259ssiz z\u0259lz\u0259l\u0259dir. O, qap\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259d\u0259n gir\u0259r, ocaq ba\u015f\u0131nda yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qalan s\u00f6zl\u0259ri, s\u00fcfr\u0259d\u0259 soyuyan \u00e7ay\u0131, yast\u0131qda qalan n\u0259f\u0259s izini \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 aparar. 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