{"id":71387,"date":"2026-02-18T08:54:36","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T04:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/azerbaycan.media\/?p=71387"},"modified":"2026-02-18T08:54:36","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T04:54:36","slug":"xatire-ile-yasamaq-itkinin-menevi-davamidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/azerbaycan.media\/?p=71387","title":{"rendered":"XAT\u0130R\u018f \u0130L\u018f YA\u015eAMAQ, \u0130TK\u0130N\u0130N M\u018fN\u018fV\u0130 DAVAMIDIR<\/span>"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130nsan h\u0259yat\u0131 ayr\u0131l\u0131qlarla yo\u011frulmu\u015f bir yol\u00e7uluqdur. Bu yol\u00e7uluqda b\u0259z\u0259n sevincl\u0259r \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259k kimi a\u00e7\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 itkil\u0259r q\u0259lbin \u0259n d\u0259rin qatlar\u0131na k\u00f6lg\u0259 sal\u0131r. \u0130tki yaln\u0131z bir insan\u0131n fiziki yoxlu\u011fu deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 bir s\u0259sin susmas\u0131, bir n\u0259f\u0259sin k\u0259silm\u0259si, bir bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n daha geri d\u00f6nm\u0259m\u0259sidir. Lakin insan ruhu el\u0259 yarad\u0131lm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r ki, o, yoxlu\u011fu tamamil\u0259 q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmir. \u00c7\u00fcnki sevgi il\u0259 ba\u011flanan he\u00e7 n\u0259 tamamil\u0259 bitmir. El\u0259 bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259ndir ki, xatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq itkinin m\u0259n\u0259vi davam\u0131na \u00e7evrilir.
\nXatir\u0259 zaman\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131b \u00fcr\u0259y\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nan bir h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir. Vaxt ke\u00e7ir, ill\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fir, f\u0259sill\u0259r bir-birini \u0259v\u0259z edir, amma xatir\u0259l\u0259r silinmir. Onlar b\u0259z\u0259n bir qoxuda, b\u0259z\u0259n bir mahn\u0131da, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 sakit bir ax\u015fam\u0131n s\u00fckutunda q\u0259fil boy g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u0130nsan unutmur, sad\u0259c\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nir. \u00c7\u00fcnki unutmaq x\u0259yan\u0259t kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, xat\u0131rlamaq is\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t kimi. Xatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq sevdiyini yenid\u0259n diriltm\u0259k deyil, onu ruhunda da\u015f\u0131maqd\u0131r.
\n\u0130tki insan\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 bir bo\u015fluq a\u00e7\u0131r. O bo\u015fluq \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 a\u011fr\u0131 il\u0259 dolur. H\u0259r k\u00fcncd\u0259 onun izi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, h\u0259r \u0259\u015fyada onun n\u0259f\u0259si duyulur. Ev \u0259vv\u0259lki ev olmur, s\u0259ssizlik daha a\u011f\u0131r s\u0259sl\u0259nir. Lakin zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 h\u0259min bo\u015fluq ba\u015fqa bir m\u0259na qazan\u0131r. A\u011fr\u0131 yava\u015f-yava\u015f xatir\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. \u0130nsan anlay\u0131r ki, itirdiyi \u015f\u0259xs art\u0131q maddi al\u0259md\u0259 deyil, amma m\u0259n\u0259vi al\u0259md\u0259 onunla birlikd\u0259dir. H\u0259r q\u0259rarda, h\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259, h\u0259r dua an\u0131nda onun izi qal\u0131r.
\nXatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq insan\u0131 z\u0259ifl\u0259tdiyi q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00fccl\u0259ndirir. \u00c7\u00fcnki itki insan\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131n faniliyi il\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 qoyur. O zaman insan daha d\u0259rind\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. \u018fsl d\u0259y\u0259rin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu anlay\u0131r. Sevdikl\u0259rin\u0259 daha \u00e7ox ba\u011flan\u0131r. S\u00f6z\u00fcn q\u0259drini bilir. Vaxt\u0131n qiym\u0259tini anlay\u0131r. Bir bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n, bir g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, bir isti s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u0259v\u0259zolunmaz oldu\u011funu d\u0259rk edir. \u0130tki insan\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir, amma xatir\u0259 onu ayaqda saxlay\u0131r.
\nB\u0259z\u0259n insan soru\u015fur: –Niy\u0259 xatir\u0259l\u0259r bu q\u0259d\u0259r a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki xatir\u0259 sevginin s\u00fcbutudur. Sevdiyin q\u0259d\u0259r yanarsan. Ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n q\u0259d\u0259r dar\u0131xarsan. \u018fg\u0259r xatir\u0259 a\u011fr\u0131d\u0131rsa, dem\u0259li sevgi b\u00f6y\u00fck olmu\u015fdur. Dem\u0259li o insan\u0131n h\u0259yatda izi d\u0259rin olmu\u015fdur. Xatir\u0259 a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 gizl\u0259nmi\u015f bir minn\u0259tdarl\u0131qd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki o insan s\u0259nin h\u0259yat\u0131ndan ke\u00e7mi\u015fdir.
\nXatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tdir. \u0130tirdiyin insan\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini ya\u015fatmaq, onun ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131 davam etdirm\u0259k, onun ad\u0131n\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 anmaq m\u0259n\u0259vi bir borcdur. \u0130nsan b\u0259z\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, m\u0259n ya\u015fad\u0131qca o da ya\u015fay\u0131r. M\u0259n onun xatir\u0259sini qoruduqca o unudulmur. El\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 insan\u0131 ayaqda saxlay\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki unudulmaq ikinci bir \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Xat\u0131rlanmaq is\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi dirilikdir.
\nXatir\u0259 zamanla daha sakit, daha t\u0259mkinli bir duy\u011fuya \u00e7evrilir. \u0130lk g\u00fcnl\u0259rin \u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131ran a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 ill\u0259r sonra d\u0259rin bir s\u00fckuta d\u00f6n\u00fcr. O s\u00fckutun i\u00e7ind\u0259 is\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 bir istilik olur. \u0130nsan art\u0131q a\u011flamadan da xat\u0131rlaya bilir. G\u00f6zl\u0259r dolmadan da dua ed\u0259 bilir. Bu, q\u0259bul etm\u0259yin m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sidir. Bu, itkinin h\u0259yat\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131na \u00e7evrilm\u0259sidir.
\n\u0130nsan h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n biri budur ki, he\u00e7 kim \u0259b\u0259di deyil. Amma sevgi \u0259b\u0259diyy\u0259t\u0259 yax\u0131n bir duy\u011fudur. Sevgi ruhdan ruha ke\u00e7\u0259n bir i\u015f\u0131qd\u0131r. O i\u015f\u0131q s\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcl\u0259 bilm\u0259z. B\u0259d\u0259n torpa\u011fa qar\u0131\u015fsa da, xatir\u0259 ruhda qal\u0131r. \u0130nsan ruhu is\u0259 maddi s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259hdudla\u015fm\u0131r. Bu bax\u0131mdan xatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq, \u0259slind\u0259 ruhlar\u0131n s\u0259ssiz \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tidir.
\nXatir\u0259 h\u0259m d\u0259 insana s\u0259br \u00f6yr\u0259dir. O, d\u0259rdi i\u00e7ind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131ma\u011f\u0131, s\u00fckutla m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparma\u011f\u0131, g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259tm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259dir. Amma eyni zamanda insan\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tli edir. Ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdini daha yax\u015f\u0131 anlama\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rsan. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00f6z\u00fcn o yoldan ke\u00e7mis\u0259n. \u00d6z a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131yan insan ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na bigan\u0259 qala bilmir. Bu m\u0259nada itki insan\u0131 kamill\u0259\u015fdirir.
\nH\u0259r xatir\u0259 bir k\u00f6rp\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fl\u0259 bu g\u00fcn\u00fc birl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259z bir ba\u011fd\u0131r. O ba\u011f qopmad\u0131qca insan \u00f6z k\u00f6k\u00fcn\u00fc unutmur. \u0130tirdiyi insan onun h\u0259yat hekay\u0259sinin ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259sin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. O hekay\u0259 yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qalm\u0131r, sad\u0259c\u0259 ba\u015fqa formada davam edir. H\u0259r dua bir salam olur. H\u0259r xat\u0131rlama bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f olur. H\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q bir ruh pay\u0131 olur.
\nN\u0259tic\u0259 olaraq dem\u0259k olar ki, xatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq insan\u0131n \u0259n saf v\u0259 \u0259n s\u0259mimi hal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, unutma\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 s\u0259ssiz bir m\u00fcqavim\u0259tdir. Bu, sevginin zamana qalib g\u0259lm\u0259sidir. \u0130tki fiziki ayr\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r, amma xatir\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi birlikdir. \u0130nsan ya\u015fad\u0131qca, xat\u0131rlad\u0131qca, dua etdikc\u0259 sevdikl\u0259ri d\u0259 onunla birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki xatir\u0259 il\u0259 ya\u015famaq, itkinin m\u0259n\u0259vi davam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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